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I got this on the web this morning! Quite an interesting and unique idea that the writer has. Read on and see what I mean!!!! I have seen and read about a lot of cheating husbands on your site, a friend of mine even told me that she caught her husband cheating,confronted him and he beat her up. I am a woman and I feel very sorry for all those women who have been cheated and worse still, beaten by their cheating husbands. Initially, I said to myself that I won’t get married becos most marriages (especially Nigerian/African marriages) are fulfilment of societal expectations of families and friends. The nigerian society expects every woman to be in a man’s house, whether or not she finds happiness and peace in marriage is not their business.  However ,I have decided that if I must marry and be happy in marriage, both husband and wife must have equal opportunities in d marriage. I have therefore found the solution to men’s infidelity in marriage. The solution is OPE...

Reports according to Mail Online James Greenwald, 88, was professionally and romantically involved with Theodora Lee Corsell while he was living with his wife Marilee, according to papers filed in Manhattan Supreme Court. Corsell is suing for the ‘reasonable value’ of the six years during which her ‘services’ went unpaid. She claims she performed tasks for Greenwald such as helping him get rid of New York Giants tickets, dealing with a $3million threat from another mistress and digging up dirt on his 77-year-old wife, according to the New York Post. Corsell, who said her ‘professional services were separate and apart from the parties’ romantic relationship’, alleges Greenwald said he owed her ‘everything’ and promised to compensate her as well as indicated he would leave his wife. Greenwald said he would pay Corsell and include her in his will, the New York Daily News reported. The payment did not happen and neither did the divorce.

You met and dated a girl when you were in the University, she was a virgin when you met her, and you both agreed not to have s*x until your wedding night. The two of you became graduates but were jobless for 4yrs. However, after many years of suffering, she later secured a job for you in one Big Company where you were paid close to  N900,000  per month. Things were now going well with you and you finally proposed marriage to her, she accepted but after a few seconds, tears began rolling down her cheeks. You asked her what the problem was and what you heard was… “ I Am Sorry Love, M No Longer A Virgin, I Gave My Virginity ToYour Boss Before He accepted to employ You In The Company. that's The Only Condition he gave Me If You Must Be employed or You Would Remain Jobless” If you were the guy! What will you do? Continue with the marriage? Quit? Tell us your opinion and give reasons!!! A guy is currently in this state of Confusion and is relying on your...

Kanye West and Kim Kardashian West's 1 year anniversary was on Sunday, Kim shared lots of their wedding photos and loving messages online to celebrate their anniversary, Though Kanye did nothing or even say anything about it until yesterday when he twitted these Tweet and reply between Kanye and Kim Now Kloe posted this one above

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No matter how upset you are, or how hurt you feel about your partner, there are just some things you shouldn't say to them, because it could mark the beginning of the end of that relationship. Below are 5 questions you should never ask your partner: 'Are you sure you want to be with me?'  Though it is important for the health of a relationship for each partner to praise and cherish the other, each partner is actually responsible for their own basic level of self-respect and self-confidence. If you need constant validation on a basic level, then before long, your partner will find it difficult to admire or respect you. The solution to this is to make sure that you would want to be with you, and that you already enjoy being yourself. When you feel great in your own skin, it's much easier for you to have the clarity of mind to actually assess whether the person you're with is a great match for you and genuinely appreciates you. 'Why are you so lazy, annoying, se...

The first few dates might have been phenomenal. The first few months might have been like living on cloud 9. The first all night phone call might have felt effortless until some random moment when you suddenly lost the connection. What are these little things that can be major game changers for a guy? Here are 7 behaviors that tell a man a lot about you, and can sometimes surprise him.  1. Becoming insecure Are you weird? Do you have bizarre habits? Are you annoying sometimes? Probably. But, who isn’t?? The problem occurs when you become insecure about your quirkiness. If you follow up every thing you do and say with “is that weird of me?” and “do you think I’m totally crazy” a man will sense you are not comfortable with who you are. Typically, early on in the dating process, men make more of an effort to tell you how cute the “weird” things you do are. When they stop telling you, it’s not because they don’t find it cute...

Do not allow resentment to come in to your marriage, forgive and another so that your family will move on smoothly. Jimmy Evans says: "One of the hardest things to do is forgive those who've deeply hurt you, especially your family and your spouse. Today you can begin to forgive and experience healing in your life." Find out how you can let go of every hurt in this video.

Marriage in its true essence is meant to be 'together forever' which means  both parties must fulfil the " till death do us part" of the vow made on their wedding day. The odds of having a good or bad marriage is a fifty-fifty thing which is determined by both husband and wife and absolutely no one else. It is true that marriage isn't for everyone, while some last other fall apart within a couple of years but if you and your partner are willing to work towards the success of your marriage, Tor Constantino of YourTango gives helpful tips that can make your marriage last for decades. It’s not all about you: We’re all selfish, but if you want your marriage to last and be a success you need to consider the needs of your spouse before your own needs. Realize that you’ll both let each other down: Neither of you is a perfect person, and if you think you are perfect—that’s probably a good sign your relationship might be in trouble. Once ...

Is there really anything such as a perfect relationship? the answer is definitely a NO. Many people never come to that real term when going into a relationship, they think everything is rosy but things are not actually that way. When you see a couple outside and you think the have just a perfect relationship, you should also know that they have also or still going through a lot but are trying their best to conquer that unfair situation in their relationship. Here are Seven things that can never be perfect in a relationship but you must always learn to overcome them. You don't always have to be on the same page: You're always told that communication is important in any #relationship, and it is. However, you won't always be on the same page. Once in a while, texting your #boyfriend will slip your mind, and he'll be upset that you kept him out of the loop. Or maybe he'll bottle up his feelings of jealousy in order to keep you happy, and one day #everythin...

For some time now men have been seriously accused of beating their wife. Ask me and I will tell you it is irresponsible for any man to beat her wife or girlfriend (either of the two). But then there are some other ways we can do this without actually touching or hitting them physically. Don’t ask whether it is by denying them of cash – absolutely No! In fact any man than cannot sustain his wife and children is lazy and not worthy to be called a man. Meanwhile this is applicable for everybody. When you have problem with your wife or girlfriend: 1. If she refuses to cook for you show her that you too can do can do equally do the cooking ( This is not for everybody as not every guys know how to cook) or you can buy already cooked food outside, bring it home and eat in front of her. While doing this you can put on some love song which will irritate her and make her to feel jealous. 2. You can also visit the Mr. Biggs, Sweet sensation or Tantalizer with your children without your wife. 3....

You cannot love anybody if you do not love yoursefl. God is the only true source of love. You cannot give what you do not have. God is love and when you let him, he will show you how to love your spouse. Jimmy Evans  says:  "When you regularly ask God to help you love others, you'll experience a better marriage and have a greater impact on all of the relationships in your life."